Pastor’s Wife, You Are Not Alone!

Once a pastor’s wife sat in my office, weeping. As she dried her eyes, she asked, “Do other pastor’s wives ever feel like this?”

“YES,” I said. “Yes. They do.”

As the wife of a pastor for over 30 years, and more recently as a marriage and family therapist who works with spouses of ministry leaders, I am very aware of the isolation that many pastor’s wives feel. Being the wife of a pastor can be rewarding and fulfilling, but it can also be stressful and lonely.

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The Art of Listening

Have you ever been talking to someone and started wondering, “Are they really listening to me? They are being quiet, but I’m not sure if they are really hearing me!” We all want to be heard. Feeling heard is vital to feeling loved and connected.  Today we are going to look at three principles that will help you listen and strengthen your relationships.

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Capturing the Awe and Wonder of God

Can you think of a time when something grabbed your heart with such passion that it felt like you would explode with enthusiasm, only to have it later become familiar and routine?  Maybe it’s your job, a relationship, a hobby, or even God.  When things are new, there often is a sense of excitement.  But when things become familiar, often our passions wane.

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